Tuesday, December 8, 2015

Food for my thought

            It's Monday again, that part of the week where I have to drive an hour to attend 5 hours of classes. I can't change that routine so I have made my peace with it. So as usual, I picked and dragged myself to school. I don't know what it is about today that made me lethargic than I usually am. But certainly the cold breeze that I felt as soon as I stepped out of my warm car drained half of my laziness and to remove the other segment, helped myself to Starbucks to have my favorite vanilla latte. Located in downtown and in the heart of my campus, the coffee shop was filled with students. Some of them occupied with probably assignments and projects (thought so because those are the only things in my mind, apart from the thanksgiving break) at tables, while others were chatting in the queue that was lined from the cash register to the farther end of the shop. Since I had to survive the day, I stood in the queue determined to have my coffee. Finally it was my turn, I ordered and joined another queue that was lined to collect the orders. While I was waiting for my drink, one who was standing next to me complemented on my shoes saying "I love your shoes. It looks comfortable".

            I have always heard lot of quotes on 'smile at any stranger'. I experienced and learnt to reciprocate that gesture. I don’t know the impact on others, but it never really had any on me effect. But I didn't stop extending it to others. Today's incident had very powerful impact on me. It not only abated my laziness but refilled me with the enthusiasm to spend the rest of day. That stranger made my Monday by complementing me. Now I know how a smile from a stranger really feels to the recipient. 

            I know that simple complement and smile may or might not be enough to live with but it definitely rejuvenates the soul when it is most needed. Of course today's incident was trivial. When it can help me, it will positively help in a real serious, moment. Indeed such a gesture might not stick in the mind of a recipient but what matters is that we can divert that person off his tensions then it is definitely worth.

            Are simple things really enough to make us happy? Is a smile really enough to live? But it really helps us get though a sad hour or boring day. How big of a happiness is need to make us happy? Indeed, a warm hug from our beloved will certainly make us contented, secured and rejuvenating; but is it enough? Well, the answers to these questions are simple. A smile, a warm hug or any such gesture might not be enough to live with, but they are certainly needed. So, today I made a resolution to do my bit to make a stranger happy.


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